The Stanford Medicine Letter Project idea is simple:
Write a letter that explains what matters most to you at the end of your life, how medical decisions should be made, and who can make decisions for you if you are unable. A formal advance directive can be intimidating to some. This is a straightforward way to make your wishes known.
Every adult should complete advance directives..... and most would, if they could! Sadly, many take one look at the advance directive form and give up after the first two minutes of trying to decipher the medico-legal jargon.
In my work in Palliative Care, I continue to be amazed by the number of people I meet who have never thought or talked about dying. It is a natural part of life, guaranteed. It is one of the only sure things that we all have in common. And yet, so few people feel comfortable discussing it.
I am also amazed at the number of people who have thought about it extensively , have clear wishes, but have never made them known.
Don't wait! Talk to your family and consider this simple tool to share your thoughts and wishes.